HOW DID YOU BECOME INTERESTED IN FETISH/BDSM?
I've been chasing down men my whole life, so in that respect dominance is an intrinsic part of me. I loved taking a boy who--for whatever reason--didn't want to kiss me or talk to me or whatever and tormenting him until he was not only interested in me but a helpless, stammering ool. I still get off on molesting men, its just legal now. Well...sort of.
AND HOW DID YOU TRANSITION FROM AN INTEREST TO IT BEING A PROFESSION?
What can I say, I needed a job.
WHAT CAN SOMEONE SEEING YOU AS A PRO DOMME FOR THE FIRST TIME EXPECT?
A first time-slave can expect me to lay down basic rules. I am big on respect and behavior details such as eye contact and how to properly address a Mistress. Once we cover the basics, however, I find that first sessions are usually really hot as we're getting to know each other and exploring each others bodies and minds for the first time. If you want ore of an idea of me in a session you need to go to my website, www.mistressdarcy.com.
WHAT KINDS OF PEOPLE BOOK SESSIONS WITH YOU?
The stereotype is married, middle-aged business men; although I do get a lot of those gentlemen, I've found this summer that I'm attracting a remarkable number of handsome young newcomers as well--which I couldn't be happier about. Most good dommes can work with anybody, but if someone is young and attractive it really does make a huge difference in the session. Well, I guess I shouldn't speak for everybody. But I certainly love it.
WHAT ARE YOUR SPECIALTIES?
Roleplay, cuckolding, public scenes, and forced bi. I would say the common thread with those is a certain imaginative boldness that exceeds even the normal requirements of a dominatrix. Plus a lot higher production value, so to speak. There's a big difference organization-wise (and really everything-wise) between bending someone over your knee and spanking them for an hour and getting six men together for an hour-long forced bi fuck-fest.
WHAT KINDS OF EQUIPMENT DO YOU USE?
Oh, all sorts. I love suspension, large standing cages, and stocks. As far as hand tools, I go mad over a nice electrical kit. I always have pretty lace panties on hand for my sissies, and I'm very particular about my chastity belts. I DON'T have a burdizzo, which is next on my list!
DO YOU ENJOY FETISHISM/BDSM PLAY IN YOUR PERSONAL LIFE, AND IF SO WHAT ARE YOU INTO?
I'm usually fairly kinky in the bedroom, and honestly I'd be hard pressed to find someone who was interesting enough in the world of vanilla sex to keep me occupied. Not to disparage vanilla citizens, but for me it just gets boring after awhile. As I said I've always enjoyed the conquest of men in my personal life, and now that I've gotten into the serious side of BDSM it's only made me more of a predator!
WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU HAVE FOR SOMEONE JUST STARING OUT IN THE FETISH SCENE?
There is so much information available for free on the internet that I would definitely begin my search there. Once you've done some basic reading on the etiquette and culture of BDSM you can start going to events. There is no substitute like real time experience, but it's totally fine to take it slowly...if you're not comfortable or ready for an experience you may end up not enjoying yourself. When you've met a few people on the scene you can start seeking out opportunities to play. I guess the biggest advice is to not judge and to not force yourself on unwilling participants. You can be afraid, over enthusiastic, uptight, ugly, horny, and a great many other things, but the bottom line of BDSM is that its consensual. I can't stand aggressive subs! Never forget that my time is more valuable than yours.
DO YOU THINK FETISH IS BECOMING PART OF THE MAINSTREAM CULTURE?
YES. You don't need me to tell you that! Madonna, Gaga, Rhianna, Christina Aguilera, Beyonce...all rely heavily on fetish fashion. All sex shops now sell some elements of BDSM. What was once taboo is becoming tame. At the moment it seems that light bondage and spanking are practically normal in the vanilla bedroom, and I'm hoping watersports is not far behind!
WHAT DO YOU LIKE TO DO FOR FUN?
I go to the theater whenever possible. A slave just took me to Billy Elliot--I know, how cheesy--but I loved it! I try to get to the movies when I have time, but I watch far more films at home. I love singing, dancing, and modeling; working out with my trainer and swimming; going to spas and shopping (of course); also traveling! There's a few things that I adore but never do: horseback riding, amusement parks, and going to museums. I do make time for fetish events though--for me it's "work" and "fun" at the same time so I can justify it! Plus I am a hopeless show-off and love flaunting new outfits.
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