HOW DID YOU BECOME INTERESTED IN FETISH/BDSM?
I believe I’ve always had an affinity for it. I remember being a little girl and playing those games where’d you’d have to capture members of the opposite team. I was always the one “accidentally” being caught! However, from puberty onwards it began to take on a deeper meaning.
DO YOU ENJOY FETISHISM/BDSM PLAY IN YOUR PERSONAL LIFE, AND IF SO WHAT ARE YOU INTO?
My biggest love has to be bondage, especially rope bondage. As I am quite an out-going, confident person I enjoying assuming a more submissive role at certain times in my personal life as I find it a great release to just relinquish control. This comes across in many of the fetishes I enjoy in my personal life too, which include impact play, psychological bondage and breath play. I could easily fill the whole magazine with each and every one of my fetishes and my variants but for the sake of being concise, I have described the main ones.
ARE THERE ANY FETISHES THAT YOU DON'T FIND APPEALING?
As far as I’m concerned personally, there are plenty of fetishes that I find leave me cold or confuse me. However, it’s important to remember that everyone has their personal preferences and as long as no-one is being harmed then there’s no reason to be alarmed. The motto of the BDSM community is SSC-Safe, Sane and Consensual and it’s an excellent mantra to keep in mind.
WHAT EXCITES YOU ABOUT FETISH MODELING?
The release it brings. A lot of people ask if I become aroused by indulging in fetish modeling e.g. when I’m tied up. The truth is nothing like that. I enjoy being tied up but in the context of modeling sexual arousal doesn’t enter the picture. I’m focusing on so many different things at once-enduring a tight tie, regulating my breathing, making sure I stay in the camera frame and staying in character to mention a few-so there’s no room in my head to get too excited! However, after every shoot I get a massive adrenaline rush. That is what excites me, that is what I crave. That’s what lets me know I’ve performed well.
WHAT ARE YOUR FAVORITE TYPES OF OUTFITS TO MODEL IN?
Something classy yet sexy. My favorite type of clip is a Damsel in Distress style video and for a lot of those clips the producer will be looking for a model to dress in secretary style outfit-high heels, stockings, pencil skirt and a fitted blouse. I like this because I’ve always found it sexier to leave something to the imagination and the sight of a skirt riding up to flash the top of some stockings or a pretty bra peeping out does just that.
WHAT ARE YOUR LEAST FAVORITES?
The genre of modeling I specialize in allows me to be pretty flexible with my outfits so generally I only wear outfits I like. However, sometimes I will have to wear what the producer specifies. Usually that works out quite well but a couple of times I’ve had to wear something I don’t like. I’m not keen on heavy rubber outfits-you don’t smell very nice after a couple of hours wearing one! I’m not too keen on wigs either as the feeling of the foreign hair on my skin freaks me out a little.
DO YOU THINK PINUP AND FETISH ARE BECOMING PART OF THE MAINSTREAM CULTURE?
Most definitely. Modern day icons such as Dita Von Teese are bringing pinup, fetish, burlesque and other art forms that were once considered risqué from niche entertainment into the mainstream. I think this is both good and bad. If more people know about fetish it will stop being just as taboo and ideally a more tolerant, open-minded attitude will develop towards those who indulge in a fetish lifestyle. However, there is also the danger of the general public developing a sensationalist view of fetish and viewing it as a circus. A healthy balance must be developed if fetish is to work in the mainstream without cheapening its image.
WHAT KIND OF MUSIC DO YOU LIKE?
My musical taste is completely eclectic. I have everything on my iPod from metal, pop, dubstep, folk…it depends entirely on my mood at the time of listening.
WHAT DO YOU LIKE TO DO FOR FUN?
Many things. I read a lot; right now I’m working my way through the True Blood series. I also play a lot of video games. Though as I’m a technophobe, I’m stuck on the PS2! Lastly, I enjoy hanging out with my friends. They help keep me sane!
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